If this pandemic has taught us anything, it’s that we accumulate more ‘stuff’ in our day-to-day lives than we realize — whether it’s candles or new blankets for the winter. And dare we mention the toilet paper?
Filmmaker and Top 40 Under 40 alumna Brandy Yanchyk went through one such revelation recently. She was helping her parents move to a smaller home, when she was caught off-guard by her attachment to her childhood things. She says that while she grew emotional during the packing up, her sister stayed calm and moved through everything quickly.
“You never kind of realize what kind of connections you have with anything you own until you have to give it up,” Yanchyk says. “It’s possible that there is a little bit of a hoarding disorder in the family. So, I just decided to pitch a documentary about people’s connection to their belongings.”
The film, Attachments of Life, follows a senior with a hoarding disorder, a Leduc man who has Canada’s largest collection of Rolls Royce/Bentleys, a woman who has lost her possessions multiple times and a minimalist living in a house on wheels.
Retired interior designer Peggy Zubyk asked for help with her hoarding disorder.
“It’s not just people who are collecting plastic containers that are over the top and that they don’t need,” Yanchyk says. “It’s also just because people are so busy and they don’t take the time to declutter.”
For Zubyk, who suffers from Kyphosis and Sjogren’s syndrome, limited mobility meant she couldn’t lift or move things. She says she would bring things into her home, put them down, and that’s where they would stay.
“Nothing ever piled high, because I couldn’t reach high. So, my stuff was stretched out on the floor,” Zubyk says.
It’s easy to become overwhelmed when decluttering, especially if you identify with the objects. Zubyk found a way around that. She worked with Helping Hands Personal Assistants, an organization that helps clients with their everyday struggles. Zubyk’s assistant handled the objects for Zubyk to decide whether to keep them or not.