I don’t really think you can read between the lines too much when it comes to music. Whatever you think it’s about is definitely what it’s about, even if the artist meant it in a different way. Lyrics from songs aren’t dictionaries, they are put together to ping experiences people have had, they’re written in a broad way so each person can adapt it to their own experience. But “Sacrifice” certainly dials it in quite a bit lyrically — very pointedly letting a person know they’re not the most important thing in your life but that you do care about them is probably something everyone has had to do at some time. It seems to resonate with a lot of people.
As a follow-up to that question about “Sacrifice,” do you think that artists, in order to really find themselves, have to be selfish? Or is that the right word?
Sure, everyone should be “selfish” if you define it in a way of putting yourself first. Artists notoriously are pretty myopic, but that’s mostly by design by us putting all these feelings on display and then hoping people like it. But, in general, the healthiest relationships are going to only benefit from each person taking care of their own needs as best they can, as opposed to putting that on their partner. Coming into a relationship as a happy person isn’t selfish, if you think about it. Expecting a person to fill needs or deficits is way more taxing on them.
I’m 52, so I feel comfortable asking this — how long do you think you can keep doing the big shows, the big festivals? (Kaskade is also 52.) Is there a point where you try to be more choosy about the shows you do? Can you imagine DJs and dance artists becoming like the Rolling Stones, still rolling out big shows past their 70th birthdays?
I have no idea what the expiration date is on performing, but shout-out to anyone in any genre that can keep that grind going into their 70s. A luxury of being successful is being able to be more particular about shows. But that doesn’t tie back to age, it just ties into self-care. If I don’t have to rinse it out constantly, week after week, travelling on multiple airplanes and hotels, not only is it easier on my body, I genuinely enjoy it more, and the crowd, in turn, enjoys me more. So everyone wins.