They also support each other professionally. “A unique part of our relationship is that we are both in the health sector,” says Wendy. “We exchange ideas, share information, offer advice and give feedback.”
“We’ve grown together in our careers and we see each other as trusted resources,” adds Martin.
They are protective of their evenings and relish their downtime. “We are hidden introverts,” Wendy acknowledges. “With our work we are always on. These days, a date is staying home and reading or talking.”
“Our central focus, whether work, marriage, or family,” says Martin, “is to be kind, be your best, listen to your teachers — everyone is a teacher — and help someone. We do it as a team, and as family.”
Music and Magic
When it comes to transforming big visions into reality, Martin Kerr and Tara Rout dive right in to make it happen. Kerr, a singer-songwriter originally from England, and Rout, a lawyer who moonlights as an events planner, met in Tianjin, China. “I knew this was the guy I wanted to marry,” recalls Rout, who wooed him from afar and eventually brought him to Edmonton. They married in 2005 and now have three children under the age of eight.
Kerr’s vision was to earn a living with his music. He built his career here by busking at farmers’ markets and on street corners. “I actually got to the point where I was making a living at it,” he says. The past two years, he’s performed to capacity crowds at the Winspear Centre.
When she’s not working at her law firm, Rout, also an author with two novels under her pen name, Melanie Kerr, indulges her nerdy side by planning Jane Austen-themed events such as the Pride and Prejudice Ball, or organizing Dungeons and Dragons retreats in European castles. And last year, what started out as a Harry Potter-themed birthday party for their son morphed into Edmonton’s first Witchcraft and Wizardry Festival. “We put it together in six weeks. It attracted 10,000 people,” says Rout.
“Edmonton is a great city for making things happen,” adds Kerr. “You come up with an idea and run with it, and the community embraces it.” With concert schedules for Kerr and court dates and event planning for Rout, spending time together can be challenging. “We’re tolerant of the craziness and OK with spontaneity,” explains Rout. “If a window of time opens up, we take it.” That might be sneaking out to the local coffee shop, or Rout joining Kerr for the weekend if he’s performing out of town. For the most part Kerr avoids being away for long stretches, one reason he hasn’t yet toured across Canada.
Even with support structures in place with extended family coming for a month or two at a time to help with the kids, they do admit that crazy schedules and busy lives mean some things get neglected. “Have you seen the state of our front yard?” quips Rout.
This article appears in the February 2019 issue of Avenue Edmonton