I hear you’ve lent some of your formal wear to your employees for black tieaffairs.
I’ve done that several times. Clothing should be shared; I love lending to other people and giving my clothes away. That’s a challenge with having clothes that are rather distinctive – if you wear them a lot people will say, “Oh, I remember seeing that suit.” So, much to my husband’s horror, I do give my clothes away rather than let them go stale because I like to think that they are still out there enjoying themselves with new owners. I donate my things to Suit Yourself, the charity that distributes clothes to low-income women entering the workforce, and to Wings of Providence, the second-stage women’s shelter.
Any pieces you’re forever attached to?
One of my favourite things that I’ve had in my life was a pair of pink sequined pants that I bought at Who Cares Wear. I remember wearing them to The Works gala one year, and someone said, “Ruth, you should run for mayor,” and I said, “These pants are the reason why I can never run for mayor.”
Do you have any advice for women dressing for the business world, say for a job interview?
When you’re going for an interview, do make sure you wear something that helps, say, me as an employer, understand your priorities and your values. If you’re comfortable wearing piercings, then you should wear your piercings, because I would not want to hire someone under false pretenses. If [employers] only want you because you’re in essence trying to disguise yourself, that’s not a good place for you. When you’re dressing or speaking or being engaged with people, really, authenticity is the key component of what you should be.